Indlela yokuphendula imibuzo eqhelekileyo yodliwano-ndlebe
Abaxoxi babuza imibuzo embalwa efanayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Wakuba uqonda ukuba bafuna ntoni ngokwenene, le mibuzo iyayeka ukoyikisa — kwaye iqala ukuba lithuba lakho lokukhazimla.
Nantsi imfihlelo: imibuzo yodliwano-ndlebe ayipheleli nje kumagama. Emva kombuzo ngamnye, umxoxi uzama ukufumanisa into enye — ndingamthemba na lo mntu ukuba angawenza kakuhle umsebenzi?
Xa uqonda ukuba babuza ntoni ngokwenene, unokubanika impendulo abayinethemba layo. Masiye kule mibuzo mikhulu nganye nganye. Ukuba awukayifundi okwangoku, kuyanceda ukulungiselela kakuhle ngaphambi kosuku.
"Ndixelele ngawe"
Ngokuqhelekileyo umbuzo wokuqala — nowo abantu abawoyika kakhulu.
Lo mbuzo uziva umkhulu, ngoko abantu bayothuka baze bathethe kancinci kakhulu ("Um… andazi ukuba mandithini") okanye babalise ibali lobomi babo bonke. Akukho nanye esebenzayo.
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Yenza kube mfutshane — malunga nomzuzu omnye. Gquma izinto ezintathu ezilula: ungubani kwaye wenza ntoni, kancinci ngamava akho, nokuba kutheni uchulumancile ngalo msebenzi.
"Ndingumntu okhutheleyo oneminyaka emibini yamava njenge-cashier. Ndilungile kubathengi kwaye ndilumkile ngemali — itilini yam ibisoloko ilungelelene. Ndifuna umsebenzi oqinileyo apho ndingenza khona umsebenzi olungileyo kwaye ndikhule, kwaye kungenxa yoko ndichulumancile ngesi sikhundla."
Uyabona ukuba oko kuhlala emsebenzini? Akungeni kwizinto zobuqu. Kuxelela umxoxi: nantsi into endinokuyenza, kwaye nantsi isizathu sokuba ndifune ukuba apha.
"Kutheni ufuna ukusebenza apha?"
Bafuna ukwazi ukuba uwufuna NGOKWENENE LO msebenzi.
Abaxoxi banokukwazi ukwahlula phakathi komntu ofuna umsebenzi — nawuphi na umsebenzi — nomntu ofuna lo msebenzi. Banethemba ngowesibini.
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Thetha into eyinyani ngenkampani okanye ngomsebenzi. Akufuneki ukuba kube bubukrelekrele. Kungaba kukuba uyasazi isitolo sabo kwaye uyasihlonipha, ukuba umsebenzi uhambelana nezakhono zakho, okanye ukuba ufuna umsebenzi oqinileyo kufutshane nekhaya apho unokuhlala khona kwaye ukhule.
"Ndiyasazi esi sitolo kwaye ndisoloko ndibona ukuba sixakeke kangakanani kwaye siqhutywa kakuhle. Ndilungile kubathengi kwaye ndisebenza nzima, ngoko ke ndicinga ukuba ndingangena kakuhle apha. Ndikwafuna nomsebenzi oqinileyo kufutshane nekhaya apho ndingahlala khona ixesha elide."
Ungaze uphendule lo mbuzo kuphela "ngenxa yokuba ndifuna imali." Kusenokuba yinyani, kwaye bayayiqonda ukuba wonke umntu ufuna ukufumana — kodwa ngokwakho akubaxeleli nto ngesizathu sokuba bakukhethe. Banike isizathu sokukukhetha.
"Kutheni uwushiyile umsebenzi wakho wokugqibela?"
Lo ngumgibe ukuba awulumkanga.
Kulapha abantu abaninzi benza khona impazamo. Bakhalaza ngomphathi wabo omdala, okanye bathi umsebenzi wawubi kakhulu. Nokuba yinyani, kwenza umxoxi akhathazeke — baqala ukuzibuza ukuba nawe uza kukhalaza ngabo ngenye imini.
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Soloko uyigcina ilungile, kwaye ukhombe kwikamva endaweni yexesha elidlulileyo. Akufuneki uxoke — vele ugxile kwinto oya kuyo, hayi kwinto oyibalekayo.
"Ndifunde lukhulu kumsebenzi wam wokugqibela kwaye ndiyawubulela. Ngoku ndifuna ithuba elitsha apho ndingathatha khona uxanduva olungakumbi kwaye ndikhule. Yiloo nto indizise apha."
Ukuba ubuxoshiwe okanye umsebenzi waphela, kulungile ngokupheleleyo ukuthetha — yayingelilo ityala lakho. Vele uthi, "Inkampani kwafuneka ikhuphe abantu," okanye "Yayilumsebenzi wexesha elithile owaphela," uze uthethe ngento oyifunayo ngoku.
Umgaqo wegolide ngalo mbuzo: ungaze uthethe kakubi ngomqeshi wakho wangaphambili, nokuba ubekufanele. Hlala unomoya omuhle, kwaye umxoxi uza kubona umntu ekulula ukusebenza naye.
Eminye imibuzo embalwa onokuyiva
"Zintoni izinto zakho ezilungileyo?"
Khetha ezimbini okanye ezintathu zokwenene ezibalulekileyo emsebenzini — njengokuba uthembekile, unyanisekile, ukhuthele, okanye ulungile nabantu — uze unike umzekelo okhawulezayo. "Ndithembekile kakhulu. Kumsebenzi wam wokugqibela andizange ndilibazise kwaye andizange ndiphoswe yishifti." Kuqina nangakumbi xa ireferensi kwi-CV yakho isitsho into efanayo ngawe.
"Bubuphi ubuthathaka bakho?"
Ungatsho ukuba "Andinabo" — akukho mntu okholelwa oko. Khetha into enyanisekileyo kodwa encinci, uze ubonise ukuba uyasebenza kuyo. "Ndadla ngokuba neentloni zokubuza imibuzo, kodwa ndifundile ukuba ukubuza kungcono kunokwenza impazamo."
"Unayo na imibuzo kuthi?"
Soloko unomnye olungileyo — kubonisa ukuba unomdla. Eyona ilungileyo yile ilula: "Usuku oluqhelekileyo kulo msebenzi luya kuba njani?" okanye "Ufuna ntoni kumsebenzi olungileyo apha?"
Imithetho emithathu yegolide yayo yonke impendulo
- Hlala unomoya omuhle. Ungaze ukhalaze ngemisebenzi okanye abaphathi bangaphambili.
- Yigcine ingomsebenzi. Babonise ukuba ungawenza umsebenzi kwaye ufuna ukuba lapho.
- Nikeza umzekelo wokwenene xa unako. Ukutsho ukuba "Ndithembekile" kulungile. Ukungqina oko ngokuthi "Andizange ndilibazise kwiminyaka emibini" kunamandla kakhulu.
Ungathanda ukuyibona kunokuyifunda? Landela ibali lodliwano-ndlebe likaThabo — usuku lonke, umfanekiso ngomfanekiso, ukusuka ekulungiseleleni ukuya ekuphumeni.
💡 Ziqhelanise ngaphambi kokuba kube yinto yokwenene: Thetha iimpendulo zakho phezulu, kuwe okanye kumntu omthembayo, de zibe lula. Zirekhode kwifowuni yakho uze uphulaphule — uya kuva kwangoko ukuba zeziphi iimpendulo ezicacileyo nezidukayo. Okukhona uziqhelanisa, kokukhona uya kuziva uzolile ngaloo mini.
Yakha i-CV yam simahla →Udliwano-ndlebe luyoyikisa kuba luziva lunjengovavanyo. Kodwa ngokwenene, lithuba nje lokubonisa umntu ukuba ulungile, uzimisele kwaye unako ukuwenza umsebenzi. Lungiselela iimpendulo zakho, hlala unomoya omuhle, kwaye ubavumele babone umsebenzi olungileyo onguye.
Ziqhelanise nodliwano-ndlebe lwakho simahla
Ngena nge-CV exhasa yonke impendulo oyinikezayo. Simahla, ngolwimi lwakho, kanye kwifowuni yakho.
Imibuzo ebuzwa rhoqo
Ndingayiphendula njani i-"Ndixelele ngawe" kudliwano-ndlebe?
Yigcine imfutshane — malunga nomzuzu omnye — kwaye uyigcine ingomsebenzi. Gquma izinto ezintathu: ungubani kwaye wenza ntoni, kancinci ngamava akho, nokuba kutheni uwufuna lo msebenzi. Umzekelo: "Ndingumntu okhutheleyo oneminyaka emibini yamava njenge-cashier. Ndilungile kubathengi kwaye ndilumkile ngemali. Ndifuna umsebenzi oqinileyo apho ndingenza khona umsebenzi olungileyo kwaye ndikhule." Ungabalisi ibali lobomi bakho bonke okanye uthethe ngosapho nobuntwana.
Yeyiphi impendulo engcono kakhulu ku-"Kutheni ufuna ukusebenza apha?"
Thetha into eyinyani ngaloo nkampani okanye ngaloo msebenzi — kubonisa ukuba uwufuna LO msebenzi, hayi nawuphi na umsebenzi. Ungatsho ukuba uyasazi isitolo kwaye uyasihlonipha indlela esiqhutywa ngayo, ukuba umsebenzi uhambelana nezakhono zakho, okanye ukuba ufuna umsebenzi oqinileyo kufutshane nekhaya apho unokuhlala khona kwaye ukhule. Ungaze uphendule kuphela "ngenxa yokuba ndifuna imali" — yinyani kuye wonke umntu, ngoko ke ayibaniki sizathu sokukukhetha.
Ndingakucacisa njani ukuba kutheni ndawushiya umsebenzi wam wokugqibela?
Hlala unomoya omuhle kwaye ukhombe kwikamva endaweni yexesha elidlulileyo. Ungaze ukhalaze ngomphathi wakho omdala okanye umsebenzi, nokuba ububi — umxoxi uza kukhathazeka ukuba nawe uza kukhalaza ngabo ngenye imini. Thetha into oya kuyo: "Ndifunde lukhulu kumsebenzi wam wokugqibela kwaye ndiyawubulela. Ngoku ndifuna ithuba lokuthatha uxanduva olungakumbi kwaye ndikhule." Ukuba ubuxoshiwe okanye umsebenzi waphela, kulungile ngokupheleleyo ukutsho — yayingelilo ityala lakho.
Ndingathini xa bendibuza ngobuthathaka bam?
Ungatsho ukuba awunabo — akukho mntu okholelwa oko. Khetha into enyanisekileyo kodwa encinci, uze ubonise ukuba wenza ntoni ngayo. Umzekelo: "Ndadla ngokuba neentloni zokubuza imibuzo, kodwa ndifundile ukuba ukubuza kungcono kunokwenza impazamo." Oko kubonisa unyaniso nokuba uzimisele ukufunda, yiyo loo nto abayivavanyayo ngokwenene.
Yeyiphi imibuzo ekufuneka ndiyibuze umxoxi ekugqibeleni?
Soloko unomnye olungileyo — kubonisa ukuba unomdla emsebenzini. Imibuzo elula yeyona ilungileyo, njengokuthi "Usuku oluqhelekileyo kulo msebenzi luya kuba njani?" okanye "Ufuna ntoni kumsebenzi olungileyo apha?" Gwema ukwenza umbuzo wakho wokuqala ube ngemali okanye ixesha lokuphumla.
Ungayiqhelanisa le mibuzo namhlanje. Yakha i-CV yakho simahla → ukuze ulungele xa kufika umnxeba.